Leave a comment

This spiritual lamp is prepared and dedicated to OSHUN the orisha of love and wealth and everything sweet.

Take a pumpkin and cut off about 1/3 of the top and hollow out the pumpkin.

Add cinnamon oil


5 drops of honey

5 pennies

Oshun Oil

and gold glitter

Light a floating Wick on it and put the name of the person you wish for under the pumpkin neatly folded. and allow this to burn. until the lamp is out. This can last a while if you have a large pumpkin I add alot of olive oil

Alot of Cinnamon oil

You can also add 5 drops of love oils to this as well.


Incense Recipe For Cleansing

Leave a comment

The follow is a recipe I’ve been using for a long time to cleanse away negativity and to start sweetening up my life.

Items needed…

Frankincense ( the amount depends on how much you want to make. I normally buy mine at least a pound at a time.

Honey (this sometimes will make the incense stick) but warm it up in the microwave for a few seconds will loosen it back up agian.

Myrhh ( i usually add 1/5 the amount of myrhh than i do with Frankincense)

Benzoin ( usually a few tablespoons)

Dry RoseMary ( any amt you wish just not overpowering)

Sage rubbed leaf. About 1 once or so

Lavendar about 1 ounce or so

Ground Nutmeg Powder about 3 or so tablespoons or less depending on how much of the other stuff you have in there. I prefer to use a cheese grater and grind mine by hand.

Penny Royal essential oil ( i’ll buy it by the dram and use the whole bottle) I usually keep alot of oils on hand in large quantities)

RUE(RUDA) essential oil whole dram bottle.

Cinnamon Essential oil Whole bottle

Sandalwood essential oil whole bottle.

Pine Essential Oils whole dram bottle.

I mix up all my dry ingredients first. then add the oils and finally some of the honey and mix it up. I adjust the amounts of each depending on how wet or dry I want this to be. This incense is burned on a charcoal block.

The scents are very wonderful and cleansing of the house. let me know if you’ve tried this and what you thought of it.


A Simple Yet very Effective Grounding Technique

Leave a comment

Now many years ago my Aunt who was a Nun and ran a retreat house, would hold woman’s work groups and empowering groups for people. I use to frequent her place up north during the summers and spend weeks at a time helping her out and taking part also in some of the exercises that the groups would offer.

My Aunt was a very spiritual being and greatly in touch with the motherly energies of the Goddess. During one of the group retreats she began by asking everyone to ground themselves. As she began to explain this very deep yet hilarious visual to everyone, I could hear the giggles coming from everyone as we first heard it.

Now many of us have heard and used many different grounding techniques such as being the tree and allowing your roots to grow deep into the earth for one. But this one was so simple and fast it was just the visual alone that created the laughter.

It was years after this that a mentor or mine that follows the Santeria Tradition told me that one of the places that alot of santeros would do work in was in the bathroom. I found this kind of odd but over time I began to understand that this was actually in alot of ways true. While I do not subscribe to the harming of animals or anything in many traditions. I do feel the need to have safety in doing ritual work and offerings.

So I began to understand in my mind that the bathroom really is a very sacred and very ritualistic place. It is here that we perform all our daily rituals, taking showers, brushing our teeth, performing our beauty rituals, using the (facilities ) to put it politely. This is perhaps one of the Strongest rooms in the house. The presence of water is a very important also in ritual. Water is a life giving need, it is a cleansing agent, it is given to our ancestors to give them drink, it is placed in our homes to catch negativity, it has so many uses spiritually.

I know it probably hasn’t dawned on alot of people just how much spiritual work we spiritual people do in the bathroom. Spiritual Herbal baths, relaxation baths, love baths, healing baths, etc. So with this understanding of the spiritual use of the bathroom and how important it’s role is, We can begin to look at an interesting but yet simple visualization to ground yourself before any spiritual work or spell casting.

To Begin find a comfortable place to sit where you will not be disturbed and can work on this technique.

Close your eyes and begin to imagine yourself in your bathroom. That’s right imagine yourself inside your bathroom with the door closed. The Light on.
Now picture yourself sitting on the toilet. Yes that is correct. I know it sounds odd to some. But picture it in your mind just as you have done countless times before. Now imagine yourself clutching your hands to make fists down at  your side.

Hold this Visual for a while until you feel grounded.

I told you this was very simple. Just the image of sitting on that bowl with your feet firmly planted on the floor and your hands clenched into a fist at your sides. You cannot get any more Grounded than you are at that particular moment in time.


Let me know your thoughts and if you try it and how you feel. That is of course if you giggle first and then try it.


Peace and love and Blessings.


Leave a comment


My Sweet Jar or Honey Jar Spell

Leave a comment

SWEET JAR/HONEY JAR SPELL This is a formula for a sweet jar or honey jar spell. This jar has a lot of uses and is designed to make someone sweet on you. Can be used for Love drawing, repairing love in your relationship, drawing your mate back to you, court cases, etc.

Nearly anything can benefit from a sweet jar. For the purpose of this post we are going to use this jar for a relationship to draw someone to us and make them sweet on us. I am assuming that you have already set up your altar area, cleansed your room with some sweet incense, taken a nice sweet love bath and meditated before you begin your work.

The Items needed for this are as follows.

A Jar with a screw on lid (this is what I use) but any fireproof type jar and lid will work.

9 Red Penny Candles


Cinnamon Powder

Red Wine Picture of You and The Other

Piece of brown paper bag or parchment paper.

(Other things can be added to this as well such as Love Oils, Come to me Oils, Love Herbs Etc.) But for this we are going to start off basic.)

To Begin Take the pictures and write the Full Names from birth and the Dates of Birth on each picture. Then on the brown paper or parchment Write the ones name that you want from left to right Full name from birth and date of birth. Do this 5 times. So you have 5 lines. This is for each of the persons 5 senses.

Then write your name directly over/on top of the other person’s name each of the 5 times. So you have 5 lines with their name and date of birth and your name written directly on top of each of their names. Roll the brown paper or parchment towards you and place it in the bottom of the jar.

Then take the 2 pictures face up and drizzle a little honey on the faces of the pictures and then stick them together. Face to face. While visualizing them being stuck to you like a fly to honey. Place the pictures into the jar. Now begin adding the honey. I buy A LOT OF honey. So I can fill the entire jar with everything I have.

Add the honey, the red wine and the cinnamon while focusing my energy on my desires to make that person sweet on me. The honey to make them sweet on me and stick to me like a fly to honey. The Cinnamon to entice love and sweetness upon me from the other person. The Red Wine to make them drunk with love for me. Energy and thoughts like that.

Visualize that person knocking on your door. See them already in love with you. See the END OUTCOME. Them being with you and you 2 being in love. If there are any obstacles in the way visualize them overcoming them and coming to you

. After you have done this for a while and have filled the entire jar with all the honey cinnamon and red wine. Filled it and charged it with all the energy you can muster up. Place the cap or lid back onto the jar. Screw it on tightly.

Take 1 of the 9 red penny candles and melt the bottom so you can stick it to the lid. While you light the candle pray and ask spirit and god to send this person to you. To make them sweet on you and to fall for you. You can say any chants that you wish to at this point. ( I Won’t post any chants here at the moment) this is just the preliminary basic spell. You can do this also with out any words at all being said in chant.

I will however always speak out loud when I place the items into the jar. Like this. It is not these pictures I place in the jar but the heart and mind of So and so that they be sweet on me and fall in love with me. I add the honey so that they may stick to me like a fly to honey and be sweet on me. I add the red wine so they fall drunk in love with me… etc….

Now light the red candle and let it burn all the way down. You will repeat the same process each day for 9 days except for the filling of the jar which is already done. But every other step you should do, prepare yourself, cleanse your area, meditate, pray, direct more energy into the jar, repeat what you want out loud etc.

Let me know if you try this and what happened if you do this.


Leave a comment

While I know this sounds a bit weird but with the way technology has been going and all the advances we have made why not? There are telephone centers around the world that offer skype readings and email readings.
I feel this is an honest venue for giving a reading. 1 its more personal you actually see the person that is giving you you reading. 2. You interact with the person on a much deeper level. 3. You can make a connection alot easier with video and voice.

Its the next best thing to actually being there in person. I’ve been doing readings for nearly 20 years most in a professional botanica setting. I’ve done numerous readings via skype for some of my clients that have moved away to another location and can no longer make the drive in to have a reading in person. Their answer to me was that it was much better than a phone reading and being able to see me and the tools I use makes for a much better reading than just having it over the phone.

I will be doing alot more skype readings if anyone is interested please leave me a message and I will get back to you and set up a time.

Love Drawing Spell Ritual

Leave a comment

I figured this would be a great time to post a basic love drawing ritual that people might want to try for themselves to bring love into their life. There are many things to consider when wanting to bring love into your life so I want you to begin by taking a piece of paper and writing down everything that you are looking for in a life mate or partner. (This should not be just general things light height weight, etc.) It should incorporate a lot of thought. Remember You want to draw a mate that is correct for you in all ways.

So things to consider when writing your list.

  • Wanting someone Stable
  • Someone with no anger issues
  • Someone faithful
  • Someone Kind
  • Someone that is looking for a solid committed relationship
  • etc.

It is very important to look at everything that makes up a person that you are trying to attract you would not want to attract an abusive alcoholic, or someone with an addiction, etc.

Once your list is written re-read it. Make any changes you want to make. Once you are completely satisfied with what you are looking for then you can begin. To often people that have done ritual love magic have asked me why did I attract a wacko or a crazy person. My answer is always that they probably were not completely clear to the universe and spirits as to exactly what you were asking for.

Items you will need for your ritual.

  • An area you can work in quietly and un-interupted.
  • A table to use as an Altar
  • Rose flowers or petals (dry will work great)
  • Lavender Flowers
  • Patchouli Flowers or Oil
  • Red Candles The number depends on how many days you are going to do this ritual.*(For the purpose of this Ritual we will use 7 penny candles, or a 7 day knob candle, or a 7 day pull out glass candle.
  • Any kind of incense to cleanse the air
  • A piece of Parchment or Brown paper bag to write on
  • A Magnet or Magnet Oils available online

Once you have all the items listed you can begin setting up the table. Place the candle in a fire proof dish or candle holder if you are using penny candles. Set this in the center of the table. Crush the flowers in a mortar and pestal if you have one if not you can use 2 rocks which i’ve used in a pinch. You want to make a powder and mix that with the oils to make a paste almost as thick as a thick salad dressing.

Write your petition on parchment paper or brown paper bag and place that under the candle. and the magnet in front of the candle on top of the paper as well. Burn some incense to set the mood. Anoint the candle with the mixture you have made while focusing on what you want the universe to bring to you. Use your mind and really visualize every aspect of the mate you are searching for. While you do this also ask outloud for the qualities that you want in your mate and be very specific as I mentioned above.

You can create a chant if you like. Simple ones will work such as

Guardian Angels and Spirits of love

With your wisdom and power above

Send me a mate that is right for me

In heart and in soul bring them to me.

You can get as creative as you wish with this. This is just an example. You can name what it is you are looking for so the universe hears what you really want. Spend some time doing this repeating it 7, 9, 21 times before you stop. Light Your Candle right before you begin chanting. At the end you can add a line such as what is used in wicca.

By all the powers of 3×3

As I do will So mote it be. or

Hear these words I say to thee

as i do will so let it be.


Repeat the anointing of the candle visualization and chanting each day for 7 days. See what happens. Make sure you don’t keep yourself locked up in your house during this period either. Don’t get discouraged if he doesn’t come right away if your list of wants is HUGE it could take time for the universe to find your mate and send them to you.

Peaceful blessings.

%d bloggers like this: